Ninongs and Ninangs

In Filipino culture, ninongs (godfathers) and ninangs (godmothers) are more than just honorary titles—they play a significant role in a child's life. Traditionally, they are chosen by the parents during a baptism to serve as spiritual guides and mentors, helping to nurture the child's faith and values throughout their life.

Unlike the British concept of godparents, which is often symbolic or limited to occasional involvement, Filipino ninongs and ninangs are expected to be actively present, offering support, advice, and sometimes even financial assistance for important milestones.

They are seen as second parents, forming a lifelong bond with their godchild, or "inaanak." This relationship is deeply rooted in Filipino traditions of family and community, making it a unique and cherished role.

Guiding Light for a Precious Life

As we embark on the beautiful journey of parenthood, we are deeply grateful to have chosen a select few of our cherished friends and family members—representing two generations—to be godparents to our beloved child. As gay parents in our 40s and 50s, we believe in the importance of blending wisdom and modern perspectives, ensuring our little one grows up with a well-rounded understanding of life, love, and the ever-evolving world.

Your kindness, love, and unwavering support mean everything to us, and we cannot thank you enough for wholeheartedly accepting the role of godmother and godfather. The gift of your presence in our child’s life will shape them with wisdom, warmth, and guidance, and we are honoured to walk this path together.

With deepest gratitude,
Tom and Jonas